I'll start playing some games so I can move on.  I'll start with Suikoden because it seems like the game that would remind me least of her.  I know Xenogears is virtually an epic love story.

I'll start with my PSX collection, then move on to Dreamcast, and then maybe PS2...  note that these are just console JRPGs.

PSX:
Suikoden
Suikoden II
Xenogears
Persona 2
Final Fantasy VIII
Grandia

Dreamcast:
Grandia II
Skies of Arcadia

PS2:
Phantasy Star II
Phantasy Star III
Phantasy Star IV
Suikoden III
Suikoden IV
Suikoden V
Final Fantasy XII
Wild Arms 3
Wild Arms 4